The 3 Mumsketeers

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Its a strange thing when you realise unexpectedly that you have entered the realm of the ‘grown-ups’. Most people think this automatically happens when you turn 21 but for me personally all that happened when I turned 21 was the amount of alcohol consumed went up and the scrapes I got myself into required a lot more getting out of! But as I looked across the table at my school friends the other night I suddenly realised that we were in fact now adults, this was truly cemented now that we have 6 children between us (Poor Pie is the only boy, Least he has the pick of the ladies). But I don’t quite know when this happened – we are all married and have been for 5 years or more, I don’t remember thinking wow we are all big girls now we have husbands. We still had those boozy weekends away and fell back into our teenage ways. Then the pregnancy announcements started, which to be honest curtailed the booze (hopefully only temporary) and once the first of the little people arrived it was out with shopping trips and in with nappy changes and nipple cream.

It was great to have my closest girlfriends going through stuff together, it made that journey into motherhood much easier. I think the real shift into adulthood came one Xmas eve, usually a drunken affair with some very silly games, was replaced by soft drinks and quiet(ish) conversation – where had those raucous twenty-somethings gone? I would like to say it’s because we were all so happy and contented we know longer needed to prove we were the loudest voice in the room, but in all honesty I think it had more to do with the fact that we were all shattered and wanted to be at our best for the kids next morning! And there it is the reason why we went from living it up to the Mumsketeers, you can’t get sh1t faced until 3am and function with a baby and a toddler the next day. It’s not that having a baby makes you boring person it’s just that your priorities change and without realising it you stray into the land of the grown-ups and once you are in there you understand that it’s not so bad, so long as you have your friends and you smuggled in a bottle of gin

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